Importance of Marriage

Marriage is not just about having witnesses and friends to see us signing on the dotted line, but its about the commitments we made between us. Over the years, I’ve came across many friends who got married and sadly, some separated or even divorce.

I’m married for nearly 9 years and I will be cheating if I say that its a smooth sailing ones. There will be quarrels and arguments and I take them positively, its a form of communication, but both parties should know where it should end. After all, either 1 party should give in to another. It seems to be the easiest way out by keeping all the problems to yourself and start looking for someone else when you are unhappy with your first love (I mean your husband/wife).

I always wonder why people looked for someone else when they are married? How do they even manage such relationships? Don’t they feel ashamed about doing it? While we can say that we have the freedom to choose, but seriously, being a lawful husband and wife and by signing on the dotted line, we ought to be more responsible. For the 3rd parties, I questioned how do they feel breaking up others family? If you are the victim and if its your husband or your wife who got “snatched”, how would you feel? You might just feel, “I’m with the person whom I like, so what’s the big deal?” Think again, if he/she can do it to his/her former partner, he/she can do the same to you too! Why would you want to suffer by hiding behind the back when you can’t even have a name for yourself officially?

In a relationship, communication is one of the most important thing. We should constantly communicate and share with each other the problems and dissatisfaction we have with each other and not complain when we can’t take it any longer. When you’ve reached such a time, I guess, its time to say Bye Bye.

Enjoy the good time you have with your husband/wife and children.