Monthly Archives: April 2010

Is life really that scary?

April 29, 2010 – 1:50 am

There was one night when I started to talk to my parents about how important it is to have a medical insurance plan that will get us all covered and become worry free or at least minimize the worries we have when we need to use it. So I talk about why I got both Ethan and Ezanne a well covered medical insurance plan and how much extra I paid to get both my parents in as well. And so I reminded them on CPF nomination so on and so forth.

Then my mum started to talk about maybe she will be gone first before my dad and I was like, “Hello, you just pass the half century mark and you are already thinking of when you will be gone?” Personally I thought instead of thinking being “gone” she should think about spending quality time with the grandchildren. After all, how many people would be like my parents to stay home at such young age (government actually increase the retirement age to 62) to look after grandchildren? The answer is Yes there is, but its just a few.

Then again, I’ve always shun the topic of death. I find that its a taboo topic and its really scary so whenever I can, I will drop the subject. I always feel that we should live life to the fullest and enjoy life while you can. What are your thoughts then?

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Ethan with Bob the Builder

April 25, 2010 – 10:26 pm

I happened to notice a message posted by Starhub on Friday that there will be a story telling session on Saturday as part of Book Exchange 2010 and there will be a guest appearance by Bob The Builder.

On a Saturday morning, I brought Ethan to NLB, its actually the first time he is there and the first time I actually brought him to a library. We were one of the first 80 families to arrive and managed to get a ticket for a photo opportunity with Bob and collection of a free gift.

The event started with a story telling of the stories from Thomas The Train and Bob The Builder. The story teller was engaging but sometimes, I asked myself if Ethan really understand what he was reading. But I ask Ethan after that, he still knows the characters in the story that was read to him, so at least, there is still something that he managed to absorb.

Then it was the appearance of Bob The Builder. I’m glad that Ethan was not afraid of Bob and was courageous to take the photo with Bob alone.

By the way, after the event, I told Ethan that we will be returning to the library next week as we’ve borrowed a book. And he told me, “So we are coming to see Barney next week?”

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Panorama 2.1 and 1.9, any difference?

April 25, 2010 – 10:00 pm

I was expecting something different when I downloaded a new version of the template that this blog is currently having. But I was really disappointed that there wasn’t even any changes and the worst thing that happened was it messed up some of the stuff that I originally had. I was hoping that I will see some new added features or improvements to the old one that I had

Maybe I was too eager to change to new template. But after this incident, I guess, I will keep to the current design for awhile.

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So disappointed

April 23, 2010 – 11:14 pm

I once called this friend a buddy, but I guess, now I should just call him as a friend. I was very disappointed after our phone call and message. He was asking about some stuff about me and how I was doing, while there were still uncertainty, instead of giving me encouragement he just tells me off that I should forget about it and move on and he will be standing by my side blah blah blah.

While it is really a sensitive moment right now and I thank god that I’m now away from the limelight, at least, I face less questioning from people and is able to concentrate at work and stop thinking about it.

Well life goes on regardless of the results, though we always hope that our wish will come true.

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P.E.E are recovering

April 23, 2010 – 1:35 am

P.E.E, Patrick.Ethan.Ezanne are finally recovering from their first major group sickness. Ethan and myself fell sick on Sunday, we’ve had fever and sore throat, while Ezanne joined us on Monday with high fever.

I don’t know why but it seems to be more painful to see Ezanne getting sick as compared to Ethan. Ethan is a strong boy, he doesn’t complains much even though he is not feeling well and I mean when he is really unwell. There was one night when he was shivering, even though it was not a really cold night and when we ask if he was alright, he said “Ok!” No complains, no cries, nothing at all. For Ezanne, she was crying non stop and wanted all of us, except the maid to carry. She threw her temper at anyone and everyone.

Well, I just hope that all of us will recover in time for a family outing on Saturday.

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The journey of Punggol Ministerial Community Visit

April 19, 2010 – 9:04 pm

It all started 1 month ago and we had our first meeting, though I understand from my chairman that their first meeting actually went as far back as November 2009. As per other events, I was tasked to design the ticket for the event and to take charge of the publicity, well it meant creating awareness online (via forum and Facebook).

Like I mentioned in my previous post, I was really proud of myself when I saw the tickets printed and in fact, I kept 2 for remembrance. Not too sure why, but unlike other banners and tickets I’ve designed, this is especially special to me. Just 1 week before the event, my chairman told me, “Pat, I need you to design a welcome banner.” I was like, ah ok, but how does a welcome banner needs to look like? Well, after the guidance, I’m glad many love the completed product.

Sadly, I was not able to be really involved nearing the event due to work commitments and on the day itself, I actually fell sick. But, I thought I should just attend the event since I’ve not been to a ministerial community visit before. So while I was sick, I was still trying to find some things to keep me alive…. which was in this case, the storm trooper.

In the process of the planning, I understand the process of balancing expectations. Nevertheless, it had been a great experience and like I told wifey, I don’t think I’ve been so involved in a Punggol event before like this.

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Tiong Bahru 178 Lor Mee

April 19, 2010 – 7:18 pm

Do you remember the last review I did on a Lor Mee stall in Tiong Bahru? Well, this time I’m doing yet another one for another stall. This Lor Mee stall in Tiong Bahru Market serves the Lor Mee with fried shark nugget. The soup is not too watery, Lor Mee soup is supposed to be sticky and the noodle is just right. But like what some of my friends commented, the standard has dropped abit, the soup isn’t as tasty as before but still acceptable.

I still miss Lor Mee with fried fish (if you know what I mean). Overall, this Lor Mee will get a 3/5 rating from me.

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I’m so tired

April 15, 2010 – 11:58 pm

I wonder if anyone would be like me, having a day feeling simply tired. No matter what you do, what you drink or what you eat to try to keep yourself awake, it simply doesn’t help at all. I thought I had a heavy breakfast, but after more than 12 hours, I’ve came to a conclusion that its not. It got so bad that I even forgot to send an email to my boss. Sorry boss if you read this.

I felt abit better after lunch (surprisingly today) then when I met my neighbours for dinner, the sianess step in again. I cannot remember how many times I told them I’m feeling really tired but life is contradicting. While I keep complaining that I’m tired, I’ve yet made another blog post.

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EPOD (Episode 1)

April 13, 2010 – 12:20 am

EPOD is Ethan’s Podcast. Every week, I will record a part of our conversation, sharing with you some of the interesting thoughts this little boy has. Basically, Ethan loves listening to his own voice. This week, we start off with Ethan pronouncing some Chinese words in a really funny accent.

Do you have anything that you want to ask Ethan? Leave a comment and I will try to see if he knows how to answer you.

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A sense of satisfaction

April 10, 2010 – 11:32 pm

I attended my first ever Ministerial Community Visit (MCV) meeting (which in fact was the last one for the main committee) with the MP this afternoon. Basically, I was just listening and observing whats going on within the room itself. Anyway, one of the reason why I was there was to collect the tickets for the MCV from one of my fellow member.

The time when I was holding the booklet of ticket, I will say that at the very moment I was really proud of myself. The ticket was designed by me and seeing it being printed out and being sold to the residents, I could not describe the feelings within.